Paris is one of my favourite go to cities. And I have the same luxury to return again and again. Sadly my family does not. A trip to Paris from the States is a once-in-a-lifetime option. It's made me think about how to avoid that FOMO. I suggest that before they come over, they think about WHY they are going. Is it to see the landmarks? Bragging rights? Is it mostly about the food? Connection with the culture or with family in a new place? Answering these questions helps eliminate FOMO and lessens the chance of coming home with more longing than you felt before you left.
Yes, the ease, accessibility and desire to travel is different for everyone, isn’t it? The self assessment of why, what you want out of your trip, and mitigating around FOMO are just some of the elements I have developed in a tool called The Unrushed Itinerary Method.
Aw this was so beautifully written, Renee! And spoke right to me. We’ve only got a day left in London and this whole week I’ve been feeling that same scarcity and pressure to do something special. So I really appreciate this permission to let that all go and enjoy the time we have, knowing we’ll be back again soon.
I’m so glad to hear that it gave you the reassurance when you needed it the most.
I know the feeling of “it’s all coming to an end so quickly”. In those moments, I find it helpful to reflect on all that you have experienced during your time.
Thank you for taking the time to read, and comment.
I absolutely love this. This is how I feel the older I get. I don't want to go to new places as much as I want to go back to my favorite places and just enjoy them unhurried.
Paris is one of my favourite go to cities. And I have the same luxury to return again and again. Sadly my family does not. A trip to Paris from the States is a once-in-a-lifetime option. It's made me think about how to avoid that FOMO. I suggest that before they come over, they think about WHY they are going. Is it to see the landmarks? Bragging rights? Is it mostly about the food? Connection with the culture or with family in a new place? Answering these questions helps eliminate FOMO and lessens the chance of coming home with more longing than you felt before you left.
Yes, the ease, accessibility and desire to travel is different for everyone, isn’t it? The self assessment of why, what you want out of your trip, and mitigating around FOMO are just some of the elements I have developed in a tool called The Unrushed Itinerary Method.
Aw this was so beautifully written, Renee! And spoke right to me. We’ve only got a day left in London and this whole week I’ve been feeling that same scarcity and pressure to do something special. So I really appreciate this permission to let that all go and enjoy the time we have, knowing we’ll be back again soon.
I’m so glad to hear that it gave you the reassurance when you needed it the most.
I know the feeling of “it’s all coming to an end so quickly”. In those moments, I find it helpful to reflect on all that you have experienced during your time.
Thank you for taking the time to read, and comment.
I absolutely love this. This is how I feel the older I get. I don't want to go to new places as much as I want to go back to my favorite places and just enjoy them unhurried.
Wonderful. That is the theme to my monthly newsletter, so I hope you will continue to enjoy this idea of returning.